Sex is a basic need for most people, provided at this level it provides a release of tension and stress. When sex is provided and enjoyed more frequently than natural drives it becomes a great pleasure. If overdone it can eventually loose its thrill.
Unfortunately the sex drives of partners are often not matched and therefore one partner will often be seeking the release of a biological need and therefore be less inclined to have moved on to making sure that their partner receives all the pleasure available. This often means sex is quick, sometimes rough, and the women will not reach her climax and tend to go off it, leading to a continuing pattern. Some surveys say as many as 80% of women do not get an orgasm regularly and many surveys suggest many women only take part in sex for their partners.
This is such a great shame when so much enjoyment and pleasure is available to women through sex competently performed. Luckily we are able to stimulate ourselves and to get friends to stimulate us if we do not have a a partner who has the skills.
The pleasure of sex is also enhanced once you know that you are going to receive the full effect and can concentrate on making sure that your partner gets the best experience possible, and each also receive the reflection of the pleasure that you give to each other.
Those who are not in love or have a permanent partner could use the time creatively to enjoy sex and gain experience with others, however it is wise to be sure that you have contraception under control and are either a party within a closed group, or some other way know that there is no health risks to you. Affairs are fun as long as both parties fully realize that it is entertainment and not the start of a serious relationship.
